You aren’t always sure who to be, but you know what impact you want to make. This isn’t about lacking confidence: it’s about the focus that comes from paying attention to what others see in you. In the Enneagram, leading with the heart doesn’t mean being nice. It means deliberately shaping your connections so you can make a difference. Use NLP to explore the difference between trying to impress others and finding purpose in the impact you have on other people.